An old friend rang me today. I worked with him back in 2000 or something like that – it was a LOOONNNNGGG time ago
He’s from Dominica and he rang me and asked me something that inspired me to write this blog post. The question focused on what would get me back to Dominica. Now it is my intention to go back and stay during the England winter months but I could actually go anywhere hot in the world – or any other island in the Caribbean. So why go back to Dominica? Well because of something very important….
As human we have two sets of needs that must be met.
The first and most important set of those needs are the survival needs – air, food and shelter – assuming those needs are met we then have a very important need that isn’t necessarily a survival one but it could sit in that batch and that is belonging/love.
Without love and a sense of belonging let’s face it life would be extermely lonely and it is this “need to belong” that could bring many of us back to Dominica because the government are eager for professionals to return. To be honest it is the ONLY reason I will return to Dominica. If I was someone without connection to the Caribbean I may choose one of the more established islands with a stronger infrastructure but for me Dominica is a place where I can say I belong – because of my family heritage I have a place I know is part of me. I also have England and my children are here so I am blessed with having two places of connection but despite growing up here I have always felt a little like I am here but I don’t really belong here. It is better now than it used to be but I always felt like a “visitor” – especially if I went to the seaside or to places where people of colour were not in abundance!
So, if the government does want to attract professional people from the Diaspora back to Dominica they can offer incentives, they can do things to make the roads better they can work on things like that or they can focus on making it an emotional pull – and we all know emotion sells far more than logic!
Reconnecting us to our roots and letting us know that we are wanted and belong to Dominica is – in my humble opinion – one of the best ways to get us taking a look at whether we want to return.
What do you think of that? Maybe people don’t want us back? Any opinions on that.